Daily Gratitude

Daily Gratitude: From a Sailor’s point of view this is a nicer way to say “control what you can control and pay little to no attention to the things you have no control over”. When things don’t go the way you planned for them to go, you can mope and pout or, you can pull yourself up by the bootstraps and figure out how you’re going to revise your plans in light of what’s happening. Changing your course willingly, trusting that the universe is sending you in the right direction will get you where you’re supposed to be even if it’s not where you wanted. I have repeatedly talked about my wanting to be a doctor since I was 4. And i wanted to be a neurosurgeon. Well, that went to poop when I developed epilepsy. But you know what? I am so happy I didn’t go into neurosurgery because I have impacted more people with the career I ended up with Than I ever would have as a neurosurgeon. It wasn’t what I scripted but it was the absolute best thing that could have happened. Always be flexible and maintain an open (growth oriented) mindset. Let go of the need to control. You will end up where you’re supposed to be.

Daily Gratitude

Daily Gratitude: Everyone talks about going the extra mile and I believe if you want to succeed, you do need to do that. But the mile never really ends. A lot of people go the extra mile but look at people who are at the top of their field and you’ll see they didn’t stop there. They kept going even further. It’s those people who will find the pot of gold. But it’s not easy. You have to want something in every molecule of your soul. It’s not for everyone. Take a look at Olympians. They have definitely gone far beyond the extra mile and their pot of gold is not necessarily a medal but the experience. You have to determine for yourself which mile marker you’re willing to aim for. It may be that you’re fine where you are but it also may be that you want more. If you do, what are you willing to do?

Daily Gratitude

Daily Gratitude: I had never listened to the words of “Don’t worry, Be happy” until recently. I can’t think of anything better to write here other than some excerpts from it. We should sing this song many times a day:

“Don’t worry, be happy
In every life we have some trouble
When you worry you make it double
Don’t worry, be happy
Don’t worry, be happy now

Ain’t got no cash, ain’t got no style
Ain’t got no gal to make you smile
But don’t worry, be happy
‘Cause when you worry your face will frown
And that will bring everybody down
So don’t worry, be happy
Don’t worry, be happy now

Don’t worry, be happy
Listen to what I say
In your life expect some trouble
When you worry you make it double
Don’t worry, be happy, be happy now.”