There is always something there

Daily Gratitude: How many times have you looked at something and just scratched your head saying “i just don’t know. I wish I could figure this out.” And the longer you stare at it, the more frustrated you get.

I think that deep down inside you know that there is an answer but for some reason you can’t see it.

Getting frustrated will not help you find that answer. You need to take a break and reset your brain. Try some deep breathing, meditate, go for a walk. Just do something that will both relax you and take your mind off the issue at hand.

When you’re feeling relaxed again go back to the project. But sit or stand some place else (getting a different perspective is vital). Even if you have to move your computer do it.

Now take a minute to thank the situation (yes I know it’s probably an inanimate object but thank it anyway).

Then see if you can retrace the steps that got you there even if those steps are not in your purview.

Also see if you can visualize what it is you want everything to look like once this little bump is taken care of.

Now look at this obstacle and instead of something big think of it as a speed bump in your neighborhood. We had new ones placed over a year ago and they’re horrible. But i eventually figured out the path of least resistance. So now it’s fun. Do the same thing with your problem. Bring it down to size and put it in terms you’re familiar with. Then work on it in a friendly way.

Will these things work? I hope that at least they will help you view the bumps you come across in a more confident manner. You’re as big as they are – there is no obstacle bigger than your brain. You just have to apply your brain differently if the usual way isn’t working.

Most of all have fun with all you do especially your challenges.