Daily Gratitude: I thought lobster sucked and how could anyone eat it. Why did I think that? I have no clue but I did. “What are you talking about, Terrie?” When I was young, my family would all go to a place way out on Long Island so my father could fish. On the way home, we would stop and get lobster to have for dinner. No way on earth would I eat it. And for once my parents didn’t insist I eat “what was put in front of me” why? Because if I didn’t eat it, my mother could have mine. So in a way you could say she fostered my belief. Ha ha. Why would they get one for me if they knew I wasn’t going to eat it? Because I liked to dissect it while they were eating. But that’s another story. Anyway I kept telling myself that no one in their right mind would eat this stuff. All my life i turned it down. Then in my adult life I somehow ended up in a situation where i had been invited to someone’s house for dinner. There I eat with lobster in front of me. I had been brought up to be polite and eat what I was served so as not to be rude. So i tentatively ate this beast on my plate. Much to my surprise, I loved it. It tasted wonderful and I couldn’t get enough. My belief was shattered. I created a new belief. This is cute and seemingly insignificant but it demonstrates my point perfectly. A more important example is that i also always thought that nothing was going well in my life. I had been rejected at medical school twice, I developed epilepsy and my life plan seemed destroyed. I kept plugging along always waiting for the next shoe to drop. I finally got into medical school, my epilepsy was controlled and I was on this one lane road of a career path. Then I met the most remarkable woman ever and she taught me metaphysics and introduced me to the “everything always works out for me” concept. She told me to say it over and over as nauseum. I thought this was the dumbest thing ever. I mean just look at my life. How could I possibly say that. But I respected her so much I did as she said. And you know what? I eventually began not only to believe it AND I could also look back and see how it had been true all my life. This has become my primary core belief. It works. And now when something doesn’t go as I think it should (you’d think by now I’d know that I’m not the one in charge – sigh), I just “declare it good because everything always works out for me”. I’ve added the “declare it good” to reinforce the thought and to remind me that the universe has created the plan, not I. I encourage you to start practicing this. And watch how your life evolves.