Beyond the gift of material things
Daily Gratitude: There isn’t much more of an important concept than this.
We focus way too much on material things and although those types of gifts are appreciated, most people who are suffering in some way really appreciate it when you take the time to spend with them inquiring how they really are and letting them talk.
Of course it’s also important to ask them if they are “up” for company. Sometimes people in pain are way too exhausted to be able to give quality time no matter how good your intention. Asking them and abiding by their wishes will also convey you really do care about them and that will mean the world to most people.
Chronic pain, whether physical pain or emotional, creates the greatest feelings of loneliness. It’s worse when others stay away and treat them as if that person has leprosy.
There’s a fine line to walk here but if you’re considerate and caring, it won’t be that difficult and what’s more important is that they know they aren’t alone.
