Daily Hotline Message

Let’s manifest a fantastic week.

Here’s another quote by Abraham-hicks:

“Everything that you experience is a reflection of your vibration.

It’s all about vibration, and what I find people doing, including me sometimes, is that they figure out what they desire and set it down with all the specifics and they are good to go.

Then they make their affirmation or declaration and sit back and wait…..

And wait but not for long. Pretty soon they look and see that it hasn’t arrived and they’re wondering where their universal Amazon driver is.

“What’s taking so long? what did I do wrong? Maybe it wasn’t the right desire or I didn’t do it the right way. Or just maybe it doesn’t work because I KNOW I did it right.”

So they either give up or they go thru the process again.

Whats wrong here?

They have determined that such and such has to arrive by this specific time. Again it’s as if they know what’s right and what isn’t. They don’t leave that up to the universe.

They have also lowered their vibrations – their attraction power – by “worrying” it to death. “Where is it? Why isn’t it here?” These are negative vibrations. So once again they have been outlining.

I have two examples if I can get them in.

Back in 2013 or so a friend had fallen in love and they were looking for a house. They found the best one ever but at that point either they couldn’t afford it or it wasn’t available- -I don’t remember which. I worked with him about manifesting it. Jump ahead a couple of years and he’s giving me a hard time about “this stuff doesn’t work”.

I let him know that it does work by emphasizing that he and the woman had broken up thank goodness since she was horrible to and for him.

Had they gotten the house he would have felt obligated to stay with her or would have had a heavy debt for the house alone.

The universe knew what was coming even if he didn’t.

That’s not to suggest that any delay in getting your desire means something bad is going to happen. Just trust the universe’s timing.

The other example involves me. My brother was estranged from the family for almost 36 years.

I read The attractor factor by Joe vitale

One of the exercises in it had us write out a declaration. I wrote something about my brother coming back into my life. And I let it go since that hadn’t happened for all those years.

A few days later I got a call at work. When I answered the voice said “hey this is your brother”. I knew immediately who it was so this was not a goose bumps moment. It was a guy I worked with who said he’d adopt me and be my big brother. We’d had that going for several years.

But it scared me. I wondered if I had written “my brother will contact me”. If so, he sort of had. But not the brother I wanted. If I wrote that I hadn’t been specific enough.

I couldn’t wait to get home to find out what I wrote. Whew I had written my real brothers name.

Here’s the real goose bump moment. Within 2 weeks I got an email and in the subject line was “your brother” and it was from my real biological brother.

The lesson there is to be specific and then to let it go.

Here’s the quote again:

“Everything that you experience is a reflection of your vibration.”

Keep your vibrations high – in every realm of your life, not just the one you’re trying for.

Daily Hotline Message

Happy Halloween to the best group of ghosts and goblins I know

Today I want to talk about something that will make your declarations, affirmations or manifestations even better. If you’re not a believer that’s ok because you can use this easygoing phrase in your everyday life.

What is it? It’s this. Tack on to every wish or desire “This or something better”

For example with my search for a car last year I declared that I wanted a van that had certain characteristics which I defined but you don’t need to hear and added “this or something better”. I was going into that search think I was going to pay an exorbitant amount to get a new van. But adding the “this or something better” brought to me the used vehicle that is absolutely perfect for me.

When you decide how to get whatever it is you’re after, you stop the creative power of the universe. I talked about that last weekend when we talked about Karin’s play. We are minions and have no idea of the resources at the hand of the universe. So why cut off the supply by determining how your desire is to be delivered. Let the master figure it out. Your job is just to decide what you’re after. This is a spinoff of Dr Gilbert talking about what you really want. The more you really want something in any realm the more likely the universe is to bring it.

For instance Aaron’s declaring – or he better be- that his employees are loyal, dedicated, motivated to work for him and are filled with integrity. I know it sounds weird but he should add on “this or something better” and see what happens

Karin can affirm that she raises enough money to pay for all her needs to get the Dust of Egypt produced and in front of powerful critics, adding “This or something better.” Even if you can’t imagine what something better is. You don’t have to. The universe knows

Speaking of words and things we say I had two things said to me in the last two days that were significant.

One woman said she did a lot of journaling about the relationship between her mind and her body. She said that it was an eye opener. That’s the eye as a part of communication as well as referencing the third eye and Intuition. Pretty telling.

The other person said their doctor told them it was inflammation causing her grief. Just a normal expression, right? No. She has been experiencing grief on several levels so this too was a perfect association. It is revealing to listen to yourself talk in addition to asking others to listen and bring up phrases that could have a deeper meaning

Be safe out there trick or treating and remember to set your clocks back on Saturday.

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Take some time to look inside yourself

Here’s a quote from Epictetus. It’s long and i’ll repeat it but it’s important

“Whatever happens to you, remember to look inside yourself and see what capacity you have to enable you to deal with it.

If hard work lies in store for you, you’ll find endurance; if you are insulted, you’ll find patience.

If you get in the habit of responding this way, you won’t get swept away by your impressions of things.  “

Let me say it again:

“Whatever happens to you, remember to look inside yourself and see what capacity you have to enable you to deal with it.

If hard work lies in store for you, you’ll find endurance; if you are insulted, you’ll find patience.

If you get in the habit of responding this way, you won’t get swept away by your impressions of things.  “

i think we spend too much time looking to the outside world to find out what happened and who to blame.

I also feel you’re never going to find it or them. You may think you do but in order to find out what’s going on, you need to look inside yourself.

This is just another variation of control the controllables but this quote is also telling you that you do have many more talents – or capacities – than you think you do. 

As he said, if you have a lot of hard work to do, once you take the time to search within, you will find the endurance,  same with being insulted. Look inside and patience will become apparent.

Don’t get me wrong though, this isn’t going to happen overnight. It’s going to take perseverance to look for these capacities or qualities. They may be covered by many layers of dirt and garbage – all the stuff you’ve picked up since your chilhood. 

Just know that you can find whatever you need to take care of what’s affecting you. Concentrate only on the parts you can do something about.

List some of the circumstances or events happening in your life that you have to deal with right now.

Make a list of the qualities or characteristics you feel you need to deal with those things right now. Think of what virtues would be helpful too 

Search in your past to find examples of when you’ve come up against something similar. 

What was your reaction then? 

Was it useful, not useful?

Could it be more refined?

Or maybe back then you couldn’t dig out the right quality at that time. 

Now ask what has changed inside of you since then?

Maybe there’s been some excavation projections in the interim and it will be easier to find  what you’re looking for. 

Take some time and go deep within if you find yourself having trouble locating, for instance, the endurance. You have at least some endurance and like everything else in life, you have to work to build that muscle.

Keeping yourself focused on what you can control (meaning yourself) will make the process simpler.

Everything you need is within you. Never forget that.