Daily Gratitude

Daily Gratitude: This is such an interesting concept. And one you need to think about quite a bit before you can just embrace it. But then it’s as if you slap yourself on the forehead and shout “of course.”

It gives you a better perspective on some of your pain. If you look at whatever you’re grieving or whatever is hurting you so much, take a deep breath and a few minutes to think about what information is coming from this experience and what it’s going to show you either as you’re enduring it or when it’s over. Think of labor. That pain must be unbearable. But look at the light that’s going to shine in your life after the pain.

Is there some hard time you’re going through right now that you can take a look at and realize the good that’s coming from it or at least how you can help other people (shine a light) when it’s over or even while you’re in the middle of it? You’ll be handing out wisdom and that’s a true gift.

Your light will shine.

Daily Gratitude

Daily Gratitude: We hear this concept stated in so many different ways that you’d think it would sink in but most of the time it doesn’t.

How many times have you written out lists and ideas of things you want to do and “plan” to do? I bet your answer is at least once or twice; maybe even more.

How many times have you taken action on those things? Maybe you started planning. Maybe you even set down a great list of how you’re going to accomplish something.

Did you follow through on that list and the planning? How many times did you take NO action at all, just leaving the list to eventually be discovered by people who come after you? I should clarify what I mean by “come after you”. I mean your successors not the cops or the bill collectors type people coming for you.

That’s one great thing about this Novel November (formerly existent as National Novel Writing Month). If you want to participate, you have to write 1666 or 1667 words every day in order to get to 50.000 words. That’s pretty simple. It’s not easy even for someone like me who’s pretty wordy. Life gets in the way. But this is relatively short term – 30 days, 50,000 words. No one judges you. It’s an honor system but you know yourself what you have to do. The words may end up being deleted or expounded upon but you’ve written them.

Lots of things happen during this month but I won’t go into them in this post but people take these smell steps. They don’t just plan. And amazingly several hit books have come from this world wide tiny action steps.

What actions or deeds (small steps or deeds) can you do on one of those old lists? Can you start today?

Daily Gratitude

Daily Gratitude: I’m certainly NOT a minimalist but maybe this quote is trying to encourage me to head that way (it is better for it to be a process, not an overnight wonder so to speak. It will “stick” more).

I used to be like a little kid (yes, there’s my protectors again) and was attracted to all those bright shiny objects. And maybe i still am to a certain degree. But the problem was that after awhile they would lose their shine….and I would lose interest.

I was looking for something else. Was it comfort? Was it love? Was it companionship? Was it even a feeling of belonging? I don’t know. Maybe it was a combination of all of them.

But, now that I understand mySelf and my family (my parts) I’m not so addicted. I can find peace and love and belonging in the right places, not in an inanimate object. It becomes easier to let go. I said “easier”. I’m not totally there yet.

Last week I was able to let go of something very hard for me. I released two cars – one I’d had for over 30 years and the other for over 20. My parts were in a frenzy but we’re working on it. I should have prepared them first. Now I know better.

This has created space in my garage and in my life. Now my task is to keep that space from immediately filling back up. It’s a step in the slow method of becoming content with less. I don’t know if I could ever get to “little” as this quote says but it’s worth aiming for. In fact it is going to be on my 2026 goal list.

What about you? Can you be content with little. Content doesn’t mean begrudgingly accepting it. It means being happy with your life.