I felt a sense of relief when I read it but I can’t tell you why. I think it means that you can end something (a struggle or a relationship or a project for instance) without it being wrapped up in a tiny package (resolution) nice and neat. You may have to just release everything into the universe without that sense of resolution.

I think of release as unpackaging and letting go. Perhaps you’ve been hitting your head against the wall for a long time and don’t see any way for things to get better. It’s now time to understand that the universe knows what’s best for us. We probably don’t have all the info so it’s best to just let things happen just as they are supposed to without our interference.

Don’t ever think of a lack of resolution as failure. It’s just different and release is generally what’s best.

The left brain part, though, is smart enough, to know that things are happening as they should. I hear my parts yelling from their rooms “slow down Terrie”. And even though it just echoes all down the hallway, I still ignore them.

At least writing about it helps me be aware and awareness is the first step towards my being able to listen to these voices (parts).

What will it take for you to first know there are unsolved issues in your heart and then be patient while you unwind that big ball of twine inhabiting your heart. Just like the twine, it’s a complicated mess and one thing is connected to the next…and the next…and so on. Everything is related.

Logic says it will take time to unravel it all. But emotions often override logic. It’s one part of growth to learn to balance logic and emotion. That’s the first goal.

Remember it’s one step at a time.

If you let the news and its resultant chaos get into our inner being, the result will be continued anxiety and fear.

Again, I am not advocating ignoring things you can do. What I am suggesting is that you calm your nervous system and know your inner peace before you look at the options. Don’t get caught up in things based on how horrible the situation is.

If nothing else, take deep breaths before making decisions. If you are really scared or worried, maybe you need a social media or news break until you can calm yourself and your response.

Practice breathing techniques and even consider meditation to learn to calm yourself. The value of a soothed nervous system cannot be overstated.

There are so many things happening that we cannot do anything about that if we continue to get all worked up, it will increase your stress response and that’s not healthy.

The world situation is enough to increase stress related illness and that’s most conditions. If you have a chronic illness or an immune related issue, you want to minimize stress as much as possible.

You can find peace within. It’s nearly impossible to find it without.