I see people resist this all the time. They will continue to bang their head against the wall, trying in vain to change something. When one thing doesn’t work, they try another. They do this over and over again.

Why? You’d think their heads would hurt from all that banging. But you know what? It’s less painful than realizing you have to change and then trying to figure out how to change.

The universe will continue to put up these walls until you recognize there are no doors or windows and you accept that it’s time to go find a mirror. The answer will lie within that mirror.

Stop fighting and ask for guidance as to what you need to change and how. Whenever you ask for that guidance and are sincere, it will be presented to you. It’s worth it. I’ve been there.