Whenever you think you can’t do something, ask yourself “Why? What is it that is keeping me from even trying this thing I want to do?”

Keep digging deep with your questions. Ask again “what am I afraid of that’s keeping me from doing this? Why am I afraid? Is there something even deeper under that fear that’s the real reason?”

“Is this something I want to do and is it something for which I have a deep passion?”

Once you’re aware of the fears keeping you held back, you’ll be ahead of the game. Now you can attack those fears and the reasons behind them. For that I recommend IFS (Internal Family Systems) because you can learn to do it yourself. But there are other modalities you can investigate.

Don’t take forever analyzing why. That is just a convenient excuse for procrastination. Make up your mind to do that thing you think you can’t. Be a Nike – just do it!