This takes analysis sometimes. It’s not easy but it’s vital. What’s more important than your happiness? And don’t say that your kids or parents are more important because they aren’t. You must take care of yourself in order to be able to provide anything of use for others.

What areas do you have that are in harmony? And what are not in harmony? Then – can you figure out why and what you can do about it to try to bring everything into total harmony? Can you and will you do to make everything come together?